Thursday, August 21, 2008

Texas Sexuality Education Law and Policy

SIECUS - Texas State Profile
Texas does not require sexuality education. However, Texas Education Code states that if a school district does teach sexuality education, HIV/AIDS prevention, or sexually transmitted disease (STD) prevention education, then it must:

  • present abstinence from sexual activity as the preferred choice of behavior for unmarried persons of school age;
  • devote more attention to abstinence from sexual activity than to any other behavior;
  • emphasize that abstinence from sexual activity, if used consistently and correctly, is the only method that is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, infection with human immunodeficiency virus or acquired immune deficiency syndrome, and the emotional trauma associated with adolescent sexual activity;
  • direct adolescents to a standard of behavior in which abstinence from sexual activity before marriage is the most effective way to prevent pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, and infection with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) or acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS);
  • teach contraception and condom use in terms of human use reality rates instead of theoretical laboratory rates, if instruction on contraception and condoms is included in curriculum content;
  • not distribute condoms in connection with instruction relating to human sexuality; and
  • separate students according to sex for instructional purposes.

Sexuality education and STD/HIV-prevention education are also included in the Texas Essential Knowledge and Skills for Health Education, which are written by the Texas Education Agency.


Sounds all lovey dovey and Christian like doesn't it? And yet when you look at the real life stats about teens and sex behavior, it's a lot scarier and messier:

The Status of Adolescent Sexual Health
During the last year, a series of data concerning the sexual health of adolescents has filled newspapers, startling the public as statistics reveal a quarter of female adolescents have a sexually transmitted disease (STD), and for the first time in 15 years the teen birth rate is on the rise.
Also disturbing, the worst health outcomes are often segmented along racial, ethnic, and geographic lines, with minority communities and southern communities experiencing the highest rates of STDs and teenage birth. These communities, already made vulnerable by cultural and structural barriers, experience the worst sexual health outcomes.[2] By examining the major data released throughout the last year, this becomes more apparent.


This is why I am constantly bitching and moaning about this. We have spent millions of dollars on abstinence only funding and yet despite this, STDs/HIV prevalence and incidence are not improving and in fact are worse than we thought. And while I know some people might be tired of the whole "race issue" (because of course it isn't really an issue XD) I can't help but believe that a huge part of the problem is that people perceive that this is all a problem faced by poor, young, black/brown people and hence those in charge of funding decisions don't really give a damn. After all, if only we "hot blooded" types would learn to curb our sexuality like all those nice, Christian, white people do-*cough*Larry Craig Eliot Spitzer*cough*- then we wouldn't have these issues! *sigh* The major problem with all of this is tha tit has to do with sex and especially with the sexuality of young people and nothing freaks out Americans more than that combination of topics. As a whole, we are incapable of discussing and confronting issues related to sex without making all kinds of moral/religious/highly subjective judgments regarding "other people" and their sex lives. It is almost impossible to get implement sound, sane sensible health policy as a result and that means more STDs, more HIV, more teen pregnancies and all the ensuing complications which in the end, hit the most vulnerable among us the hardest: young people, poor people, people of color.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Wow, a voice of reason in the wilderness of sordid reporting

I had an exchange with someone on my Friends list about this recently. I agree with the author of this piece but my friend seemed to feel that a person's infidelity was relevant to their campaign. I continue to strongly disagree with that and I would be more than happy to see the media keep out of politicians' sex lives. Aside from it being none of our business or irrelevant, it's just not something I want to know. Seriously folks, who else felt they needed to bleach their brain after the details of Monica and Bill's escapades were released?

It’s high time to leave the sex out of politics
Basing your vote on a candidate’s sex life is a dicey proposition in any election. Not only because it’s hard to have knowledge about such things, but more important because it doesn’t seem to be a good indicator of a person’s performance as a public official. Many people voted for Bush in 2000 because of his pledge to "restore honor and dignity to the White House" after Bill Clinton’s affair with Monica Lewinsky. So far, the Bush administration has been a grand success in this regard. Not even one hint of sexual indiscretion. Of course, the war in Iraq has lasted longer than World War II, we have the largest trade-deficit of all time, a budget surplus that was turned into the largest budget deficit of all time, a devalued currency, high unemployment, a housing and financial market meltdown and subsequent bailout, stagnant wages and record gas prices. You might lose your house, but at least you can be comforted in knowing that the prez is not fooling around with the interns.
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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Violence against women: It's all in your head




No really. It is. We women are well known for making up such stuff and becoming drama/attention whores about it all.

Everyone knows it's all made up and that in reality we have nothing to fear. Right?

/sarcasm


I am constantly amazed how frequently people meet legitimate concerns women have for their well being with "OMG you're such a drama whore shut up!" as if somehow the numbers of rape, stalking, harassment and domestic violence are all made up. Even worse are the men who laugh at us for being such silly girls and then drag out the usual bullshit about how "men get raped too and you don't see me worrying about it so much!"

Uh huh. With the exception of prison, the numbers of male rape do not begin to compare with female rape victims. Add to that the fact that from the time we are old enough to understand danger, we women are taught that we are prey and that we must be careful lest something we do/wear/say causes some vicious animal of a man to attack us. A rather effective means of control, dontcha think?

This new attitude of "it's all in your head" is a new take on the whole issue. If we get assaulted, then it's our fault. If we express concern about assault, then we're being attention whores. It's a no win situation and the next person who tells me that having a forum of men saying that you should be raped and discussing how they have been keeping tabs on your whereabouts is no cause for worry shall be summarily kicked in the gonads.

Seriously folks, this is not rocket science. Stop being so goddamned disingenuous.

Friday, August 08, 2008

Late Night Food Therapy

Recipe: Gazpacho de Andalucia
gazpacho…a light tomato soup made simply with tomatoes, bread, olive oil, vinegar and garlic.


When it comes to late night/early morning food therapy, nothing beats Gazpacho de Andalucia. Here in Texas, it's tomato season so y'all need to try this recipe because OMG. It is DIVINE! Even at 2 AM when you are drunk on vodka and sleeping pills this stuff is like a bolt of lightning on the road to Damascus. And even better? It is so simple as to be ludicrous.

Trust me, it is so worth it. The utter fail of my day has been reversed by the luscious, tart, garlicky goodness that is this recipe.



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Thursday, August 07, 2008

HIV PRevention Strategies: Pay attention to science

AIDS 2008 | Governments Overlook Behavior Change in HIV Strategies, Experts Say at AIDS Conference - Kaisernetwork.org
Jorge Saavedra, director of Mexico's HIV/AIDS program, said political leaders worldwide need to follow epidemiological and scientific evidence when planning HIV strategies


Imagine that. We should listen to the facts and the evidence in order to do prevention and not ideology and religion. What a novel concept.



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Wednesday, August 06, 2008

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #29: I'm BAAAACK!!!!

That's right sexgeeks! I'm back. Today's podcast is a random hodge podge of things and is basically just me coming back and saying hello and letting you know what's up in my world. Some of the things I discuss are:


Intro and Outro music is Temple of Love by Enigma




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Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Men aren't from Mars?

Turn-ons, turn-offs, desire varies widely among men
Among the revelations from their focus groups in which men talked about what influenced their sexual desire and arousal: one man's turn-on is often another's turn-off; an erection doesn't always signal arousal; and not every guy wants to jump into bed at the drop of a hat.



OMG! You mean men aren't the Borg? They actually, like, you know, have individual preferences and stuff? What a novel concept...

Really, if you are someone who has sex/falls in love with men, I'd say this is hardly news despite all the (often sexist) jokes we may make to the contrary. And thank god for variety because that means there really is someone for everyone.

What I really loved was this:
And for many men, a self-confident partner was also more desirable than one who didn't feel good about herself. In addition to a nice body and a pretty face, many men found intelligence "really attractive" and "a big turn on."


Imagine that, a woman with confidence is sexy. Go figure. Now I've been as guilty as the next woman of having poor body image and feeling really ugly/fat/too old/etc. but even on those days, I know that this is a truth. Yes, guys (and girls) really do make passes at sexgeeks who wear glasses.

What I do think is interesting is that studies like this are done so rarely. I think our society does men a disservice by trying to paint them all with a broad brush when it comes to discussing men's sexuality. And this study was only done with predominantly white men who were all straight. Can you imagine the richness of variety they would find if they were studying men of all ethnicities and orientations?



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Saturday, August 02, 2008

U.S. Study Says H.I.V. Infection Is 40% Higher Than Estimated

U.S. Study Says H.I.V. Infection Is 40% Higher Than Estimated - NYTimes.com
MEXICO CITY — The United States has significantly underreported the number of new H.I.V. infections occurring nationally each year, with a study released here on Saturday showing that the annual infection rate is 40 percent higher than previously estimated.


And yet the president has asked for a cut in HIV prevention funding for the US. Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant.

And a point of clarification: This isn't info from a study. It's information from a new form of HIV surveillance that is now a permanent part of our stat gathering here in the US.



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Friday, August 01, 2008

U.S. Blacks

U.S. Blacks, if a Nation, Would Rank High on AIDS
If black America were a country, it would rank 16th in the world in the number of people living with the AIDS virus...


You know, it amazes me that in a country like ours, the epidemic can have such a stranglehold on an entire community, although I suppose it shouldn't. We are after all the same country that spends millions of dollars on abstinence only education that has been proven NOT to work, we can barely bring ourselves to discuss the gender inequities that exist in every community that lead to the victimization and exploitation of women, we will not confront homophobia, despite the fact that it helps fuel the epidemic, poverty is solely a matter of personal responsibility and the rest of us have no need to think about it and we still have blind spots when it comes to the widespread and systemic racism that exists today.

The prevalence of HIV infection in several communities is affected by and affects all of the above and you cannot separate one from the other. The solutions are never simple, as we would like them to be. They instead require every one of us to not only look deeply into ourselves for how we contribute to these problems but it also requires us to call others out when they evidence thoughts or actions that contribute to the problem and that, dear readers, is fucking difficult! I have no easy answers for you on how to go about this. All I can say is that we need to take action ASAP or before you know it, it will indeed be knocking on your door, if it hasn't already.




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Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Because people in airport restrooms can come and go!

Here is a funny segment form the Daily Show about Congress' hearings on the Don't Ask Don't tell policy. It's quite amusing and yet also depressing. How is it possible that educated people can be so dumb????





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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

And now they are so far up your uterus that they can see your tonsils

Cristina Page: HHS Moves to Define Contraception as Abortion
any woman could be denied contraception under HHS' new science


Yes. Re-read that and commit it to memory. This is Bush's big "FUCK YOU" to women in the US on behalf of the fundies. I especially hope that some of the eejits out there threatening to vote for McCain because Hillary lost read this because this is the sort of bullshit science and misogyny that will be nurtured under McCain. As far as I am concerned, any Democrat who votes for McCain out of spite deserves to hung by their genitalia while we are all allowed to point and laugh. How dare you? How dare you bargain with my body just because your person didn't win the primaries??? Fuck you and your stupid sense of entitlement. Don't dare talk to me about the unfairness of it all. How your voices weren't heard and that is why you're voting for McCain. You might as well require to wear a chador and forbid me to drive or go to school for all the good you're doing my gender. You women supporting this PAC especially need to be held accountable because you are betraying all the things you claim to stand for by supporting that Bush wannabe.

Christ have mercy but I want to punch someone right now.

*wipes up blood coming out of eyes*

I know I am probably preaching to the choir here but...

Of all the industrialized countries in the world, the U.S. has, by far, the highest instance of teenage pregnancies with a rate that more than doubles the nearest competitors.


Teen Pregnancy: Why the U.S. Lags Behind Europe

Imagine that. Complete and honest communication about sexuality and access to prevention methods helps reduce teen pregnancies and abortions. Who'da thunk it? Now granted, I know that all is not perfect and shiny in those other countries mentioned but the numbers show that they have managed to do a better job of controlling unplanned pregnancies in teenagers and THAT is definitely something. What I especially loved is the assertion that they do not allow religious agendas to make public health policy, an utterly stupid thing to do anyway. And yet, we as Americans tend so see any information coming from other countries as suspect and tend to scoff at it as being elitist and not applicable to us because we are all very special little snowflakes indeed.

*sighs*

Perhaps someday we will finally acknowledge that humans are-well-human and that fucking around is simply one of the things we do and needs to be treated as simply another, ordinary aspect of being human.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Well it's about fucking time someone admitted it!


State Supreme Court says same-sex couples have right to marry

The question is, will the people of California insist on being frightened, reactionary bigots who cannot conceive of two people of the same gender wanting to be married?


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Monday, May 12, 2008

Yes, there is a difference!


Sex Work vs. Trafficking: Understanding the Difference | AlterNet


An interesting article that popped up in my email today and one that I think EVERYONE needs to read. By equating sex work and workers with those who have been forced or tricked into coming here for the purposes of prostitution and/or other labor, we are undervaluing the experiences of those being exploited as well as patronizing those who have chosen sex work as a means of making a living.

Yes, Virginia, some people in sex work DO choose to be there. They are not all sad, lost little girls who need to be shown the error of their ways by their great, white, straight, Christian saviors.



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Monday, April 28, 2008

All About "That Guy"

This is so utterly right on that I cannot even add to it so just fucking read it.

Sometimes it is not about you. If you have ever received a LiveJournal response anywhere along the lines of "your life, so hard", or "let me tell you, internet, it is tough being a white man", or "get off the cross, we need the wood", this is a sign that you have been That Guy.

Does this make you angry? Does it make you feel upset? Do you feel like your right to speak, like your right to be heard, has been silenced?

That's the space many women live in all the time. And we can't put it down and go back to a place where that silencing doesn't exist the way you can. Because for us, the conversation you just took over was that space, and we are sick and tired of repeating this fact over and over and over again.

Don't be That Guy.




synecdochic: Don't Be That Guy.

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Thursday, March 27, 2008

For the girl who has everything

Or even the boy, I suppose, if he likes pink....



Just In Case Pink Stylish Condom Holder


I looked this up because I just have a conversation with a client about the best way to keep and carry condoms with you so that you are always prepared. There are quite a few nifty options out there, many of which I'd be more than happy to keep in my own purse. Finally, condoms have become fab! Now if I could just get more people to actually use them!

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Friday, March 14, 2008

I found this on in my email today thanks to the sex workers advocacy email list and thought it was by far one of the better musings on the Spitzer situation.

Up to now it has all been hand wringing and condemnation but, being the sexgeek that I am, I am more interested in the whys and wherefores of why powerful people take such chances with their career and life. After all, men in positions of power have always had access to willing (and occasionally unwilling) women and men for sexual purposes. Why do they need to pay for it? What is that all about? According to the writer, who is also a therapist, they do it because when you pay for it, there is no need to worry about "her" satisfaction because you've already taken care of her therefore, it's ALL about you. Now even though I realize how that may sound, I'd be lying if I said I didn't understand. As someone in a position where I often feel responsible for other people, regardless of whether that's true or not, the idea of being able to have someone else focus on me without my having to expend any emotional energy whatsoever is highly seductive. Now granted, for me that means a professional massage as opposed to sex but the concept is the same. I pay the RMT his/her fee and I can lay back and relax and not worry about trying to engage them in conversation or whether I am being compassionate enough or if I am listening actively enough. It's a nice break from the usual dynamic I have with human beings on an everyday basis.

I can also agree with the writer in that this particular way of seeing the world tends to interfere with one's personal relationships. When you often see interpersonal relationships as one more responsibility, one more life for you to be responsible for, is it any wonder that you might shy away from them? Even the ones you already have?

Yeah, fucked up, I know, but it is what it is. At the very least I acknowledge this and it helps me to stop my "stinking thinking", as they call it in the world of rehab, and start to acknowledge that yeah, most of my loved ones are capable of taking care of themselves. Gee what a thought. :)

At any rate, the article gave a different look at what happened and it was thought provoking, to me. Give it a read and tell me what you think.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

A Quick Note from your Postmodern Sexgeek

Hey all you sexgeeks! This is just a quick note to say "Hi!" and direct you over to Pizzababe.com to hear me in my first ever co-host spot with the Pizzababe herself! Have fun and XOXO!




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Wednesday, October 31, 2007

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #28: Happy Halloween from The Postmodern Sexgeek

In today's quickie show I give you a few fun sites for the season and wish you all the morbid best.

Marie B.'s fun sites are:

  • Zombie Pinups: http://www.zombiepinups.com/

  • The Devil's Tramping Ground: http://darkartsmedia.com/DevilsTrampingGround.com.html

  • The zombie Survival Test: http://www.nerdtests.com/mq/take.php?id=6516

  • The Zombie Survival and Defense Wiki: http://www.zombiesurvivalwiki.com/?t=anon

  • The Zombie Survical Guide by Max Brooks: http://www.randomhouse.com/crown/zombiesurvivalguide/



Have fun tonight, be safe and don't eat too much candy.

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Friday, October 26, 2007

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #27: Bush is an idiot and VB Rocks

Sorry about this being late folks. Due to circumstances beyond our control blah blah blah...

On today's show I discuss:


  1. The brilliance of Bush appointing an anti-contraception lackey to the position that manages the funds for the nation's family planning programs

  2. To protest this appointment go here.

  3. Talk about the lovely Violet Blue's new DRM free audio book How to Kiss


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Thursday, October 18, 2007

Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #26: Of Human Bondage

Hey all! I'ts another episode of the Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex! OMG! Don't faint.

In today's show I discuss:


  1. The only new and exciting thing going on in my life right now: puppies

  2. Many thanks to Ash B., my new producer and taskmaster who is kicking my ass and making me produce

  3. An inter view with Laura Agustin who wrote Sex at the Margins: Migration, Labor Market and the Rescue Industry. (Inter view done by Susie Bright and posted on Alternet).

  4. Sex workers who are planning a brothel in Vancouver during the 2010 Olympics


Yes yes, I'm on my soapbox again but damn! Sometimes I just can't help it!



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Wednesday, October 10, 2007

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #25: Medical sex and ENDA?

Sorry for the long wait!

First off, a huge THANK YOU to my new show producer, Ash B. who I found on SL. This is now a podcast by a woman, produced by a woman. That's a whole lotta estrogen, baybee!

The first topic I discuss is the trend towards the Medicalization of Sex i.e. everything is a disease and needs a drug rather than better communication and more sexual imagination. Go to this website and this article for a more reading on the subject.

The next topic I discuss is ENDA: The Employment Non Discrimination Act.
In order to get it passed through congress, proponents have decided that removing protection for trans gendered folks is necessary. WTF?

No music today but if i find good stuff, I will be bringing it to ya on my show.

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Friday, September 07, 2007

Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #24: Give it to me Rough Baby

In today's show I discuss:


  1. What do women really want when it comes to sex? Hearts and Flowers? Down and dirty? All of the above?

  2. And of course, once again, communication is muy importante when it comes to sex

  3. Automatic tooth brush or vibrator waiting to happen?

  4. Proctor & Gamble says : "WE ARE NOT SEX OBJECTS!"

  5. Mom went in for a biopsy on a lump in her breast, which fortunately turned out to be benign!

  6. A sexgeek PSA about the importance of cancer screening. For more info please visit the American Cancer Society website.




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Friday, May 25, 2007

Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #23: Morning Coffee with your Postmodern Sexgeek

In today's show I discuss:

Work: Yay we got funded so I won't be losing my job! And yes, I am one of the people who helped write the grant requesting funding. All UR HIV FUNDS R BELONG TO ME!!!

Coffee is my fuel! Without it I would be a a Romero Zombie unless I've used my asthma inhaler in which case I'm a 28 Days Later zombie.

An article I found via mySage Feed about how Women's rights are the key to the AIDS Crisis in Africa

Mention some HIV Stats for the US from the Kaiser Family Foundation

And mention the CDC's updated recommendations on HIV Testing

On a much lighter note...

I tell you that May is National Masturbation month!!!

So engage in the safest sex there is (sex with yourself) and cum for a good cause.

And to help you along with that project, I read another of my own erotica shorts : Rough Trade

Intro and Outro music is Ici La Femme XXX Mix by Louise Vertigo from Wakka Chikka Wakka Chikka: Porn Music for the Masses Volume 1 on on Archive.org.



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Thursday, May 10, 2007

I am an idiot

No really, I am. A huge, horrible event occurred in LA this weekend and I was blissfully unaware of the entire thing.

Demonstrators for immigrants rights were at a rally in Macarthur park when the LA police went in and began firing rubber bullets and tear gas into crowds of men, women and children, knocking down people left and right and attacking news reporters.

What is this country coming to? Is this what our country's idea of immigration reform is? Beat up those who speak up and demonstrate for the rights of the people? Of the worker?

I don't know how I never heard of this and I don't remember seeing it on the blogs of any of my friends but do me a favor and pass it on. We all need to see this and recognize that something is very wrong in this country.





Wednesday, May 09, 2007

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #22: I Can too Spell Podcast

So after a 12 hour day, Marie B decided to decompress by recording a podcast. Her topics this time around are, in no particular order...


And various other random ramblings. Please enjoy.

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Wednesday, March 28, 2007

It's all about teh pr0n!

According to The Nation, the firings of those 8 US Attorneys may have been because they thought that prosecuting child pornographers was more important than prosecuting legal porn. The following excerpts were in the blog Dispatches from the Culture Wars.


Ward's endless stream of mandates, the source revealed, were a source of frustration to many US Attorneys. "There were countless child obscenity cases crying out to be prosecuted," the source told me, "but [Brent] Ward wanted to focus on cases involving consenting adults. That's just not a good way of dedicating resources. When you have so many children being harmed, why not allocate your resources towards that?"

Ward's heedless prosecutions of legally available pornography reflected more than his ideology; they also defined his power within the Justice Department. Once Bush began his second term in the White House, Gonzales declared the prosecution of pornography portraying sex acts between consenting adults "one of the top priorities" of his department. He signed off on an FBI headquarters memo that recruited agents for an anti-porn task force. That memo stated that prosecutions would focus particularly on material depicting "bestiality, urination, defecation, as well as sadistic and masochistic behavior." These acts, according to the memo, were most likely to offend local juries.

Christian right organizations, from the Family Research Council to Concerned Women for America, lavished praise on Gonzales's anti-porn initiative. "We will watch closely, though with a growing sense of confidence in our new Attorney General, to see who is appointed to direct the effort," said Family Research Council President Tony Perkins.

When Gonzales met with Phil Burress, a self-described former porn addict who directs the anti-pornography group, Citizens for Community Values, Burress praised Ward for an aggressive and single-minded attack on sexually explicit material over nearly three decades, which had earned him the adulation of the Christian right. "He's one of my heroes," Burress said in describing Ward to the Salt Lake Tribune . As Utah's US Attorney during the 1980s, Ward prosecuted phone sex operators, shut down Utah's last two porn theaters by nailing their owner on tax charges, and tried unsuccessfully to force nude art-class models to wear bikinis. When Gonzales tapped Ward as his top porn cop in 2006, the Christian right's confidence soared.

To support Ward's task force, Gonzales and FBI Director Robert Mueller diverted ten FBI agents, four prosecutors and a postal inspector. Ward soon secured his biggest score, the successful prosecution of the Girls Gone Wild series producer Joseph Francis for knowingly including footage of two young women without receiving legible documentation, on paper, of their ages. Francis's company, Mantra Films, Inc., was slapped with a $500,000 fine--a drop in the bucket for an operation that rakes in at least $40 million a year.

Many veterans of the FBI consider Ward's efforts a burden on their ability to fulfill serious departmental priorities. "I guess this means we've won the war on terror," an anonymous FBI agent sarcastically remarked to the Washington Post about agents diverted to Ward's task force. "We must not need any more resources for espionage."

Though his anti-porn crusades rankled the FBI agents and US Attorneys compelled to participate in them, Ward produced an unintended benefit for the White House when it needed to fire politically "chafing" federal prosecutors. Ward's complaint against Charlton, filed by Sampson for use at a later date, was unsheathed by Rove and Gonzales to smear a competent professional prosecutor--and a Republican--for political purposes.

The revelation of Ward's participation in the dismissals arrived as the Christian right clamored that more resources be funneled to him. "Give him some gas and he'll win the war," Burress told the Salt Lake Tribune. "I wish the Department of Justice was full of Brent Wards." The prosecutor purge may have backfired, but Burress and his allies can take heart that the Bush White House is devoted to their culture war, even at the expense of its "war on terror."


My thanks to Violet Blue (not the Porn Star) who blogged it first.

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #21: Erotica

Hello boys and girls! It's another episode of the PMGGTS! Today's show is about erotica.

The sites I mention are:

Erotica Readers and Writers Association

Black Lace Books site

Extasy Books

I also mention Nobilis' erotica podcast which can be found at http://nobilis.libsyn.com

And as a treat I read Alison Tyler's short Story "Edit Me".

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Monday, March 19, 2007

Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #20: Not Safe For Prudes

Finally a PMGGTS! ON today's show I bring you:

Fall Out Boy with Where is your boy?

My interview with Toronto Radio Show Sex City Radio

NSFW: Censorship? Or courtesy?

Sex News!
Female gamers get plenty of sex!

Rachel Kann with Fight me, a hybrid song/spoken word/poetry creation. Hot hot hot!

And finally...
Susie’s tomato sauce recipe and Nigella’s chocohotpots because food and sex are normal parts of being human.


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Wednesday, March 14, 2007

A brief note

Hello boys and girls! Just dropping a quick note to you, my listeners, to make sure that you all don't forget about me.




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Wednesday, January 31, 2007

PMGGTS#19: Introspection

Apologies for how long it took me to get this out! Life kinda got in the way...

Today I talk about:


  • Inspiration and the swift kick in my ass that I needed that was delivered courtesy of Sami Blackmire.

  • My thoughts on being in the Pink Ghetto, as described by Melissa Gira on Sexerati.


My new SL Business, the PMG Cafe, has it's grand opening tomorrow.
Pizzababe Goes Global Orgasm Day! Call her and leave her a naughty, inspirational message.

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Friday, December 22, 2006

Have you had your orgasm today?

Yes, dear listeners! It's Global Orgasm Day!

So get your groove on and send some positive orgasmic energy out into the universe.


And yes, I've already started doing my part. ;)

Wednesday, December 20, 2006

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #18

In today's show I talk about...
Listener Comments are go!

I pimp out the book I just read: On the Banks of Lethe by James L. Grant of Two Lumps and Flem Comics


I also read the conclusion the the erotic story I began in the last cast...Enjoy!


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All found on the Podsafe Music Network


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Sunday, December 03, 2006

The PostModern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #17

Today's show is another postmodern sexgeek quickie! Today I talk about:



And then...a little surprise... A Postmodern Sexgeek erotica reading



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Sunday, October 29, 2006

Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #15: Certain Sauces Are Only Good With Flesh

Todays podcast is a Halloween ramble fueled by my favorite drugs: caffeine and sugar!

Intro by Pizzababe with BG music from Rob Zombie: Living Dead Girl

I discuss ghost stories, zombie movies, vampires and other things that go bump in the night! Or things that go bump in the morning...like me.

Listener contributions from Nobilis, Lolotehe, Iron and Stormy all from Second Life!

The sites I mention are:


I mention the upcoming Tarantino/Rodriguez flick, Grindhouse. Yummy! Find the Wiki entry here.



On Sex News I mention these two frightening news articles:

And a call to arms! Send me your porn!

Music for today was


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Sunday, October 22, 2006

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex: Show #14

At last! Another episode! Please forgive me for the long break. There will be another show next week with my special guest host Jami Deadly!

Today's show is a quickie. I talk about:
Fun sites I've found like:


And for lovely, well done eye candy there is:


Today's sex news comes from Boing Boing:



Like the new intro music? That music is courtesy of Wakka Chikka Wakka Chikka: Porn Music for the Masses Volume 1 on on Archive.org.



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Sunday, September 24, 2006

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex: Show #13

OMG! It's another episode!

In today's show I introduce The Freak Network...My new playground with new friends and new playgrounds! YAY! I have a forum!

I quickly move on to Sex News where I talk about:



Music in today's show was:

Black Coffee by Stefanie Harger
I Need to Know by Cafebar 401

And a special congratulatory shout out to Violet Blue, who has a new column in the SF Chronicle.


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Thursday, September 14, 2006

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex show #12

Hey boys and girls! It's another episode of the Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex.

There's no theme to this show. It's just a an amalgamation of various interesting or fun things I've found recently, listener comments and a bit of soapboxing.



In Sex News I mention:



Music in this podcast is from the Podsafe Music Network


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Sunday, August 20, 2006

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex #11

Today we talk about masturbation, self love, jacking off, jilling off, whatever you want to call it.

Bits of masturbatory historical trivia are here! Websites! Stories! Even listener participation! YAY!

Websites mentioned today are:


Plus I mention why masturbation is thought to be a great prostate cancer fighter!


Sex News today as well.The articles/sites mentioned are:


On today's playlist are:



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Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Hey all! Here's a little note from your Postmodern Sexgeek. Please forgive me for running behind. I know, I've been bad. Go ahead and punish me. I deserve it. :P

And just in case you don't catch it on the audio, the upcoming topic is: Masturbation! So send me some love (and your ideas and suggestions):
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Saturday, July 15, 2006

The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex #9

It's another episode! Click here!

In today's show I talk about:



And it's confession time! Tell me your fetishes. Your secret is safe with me.


Music in this cast is...

Deadender by Bubble
151 Girl by Thee Minks
The Devil Comes to Town by The Hillbilly Casino



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Sunday, July 02, 2006

The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #8

Wow! Another episode of the Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex! In today's show I talk about:


  • Second Life Insanity

  • My favorite Club In World: Junkyard Blues

  • Pizza Babe and Bob of the Pizzababe Goes Global Podcast have adopted me as a member of their Playas Family

  • And finally I discuss the Art of the Mindfuck! Send me your thoughts.



Today is an all blues music show. Yes, there is music this time! All music is from The Podshow Music Network

  1. Let Me Stir In Your Pot--Carey Bell

  2. Breakin' Out--Shemekia Copeland

  3. Don't You Tell Me---Saffire




And of course there is the Sex News!


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Tuesday, June 20, 2006

The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex #7

Finally! It's the real seventh episode of The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex. In this show I discuss:


  • A couple of listener emailed questions about "Am I normal?"

  • The most interesting sex toy I've come across yet: The Video Voyeur

    which can be found here

  • Why nice guys don't have to finish last

  • Fill you in on some sex news regarding Gardasil, the new vaccine against HPV and the unlucky fate of NYCs subway foot fetishist



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Monday, May 22, 2006

The Postmodern Geek's Guide to Sex Show #6

At last! The fabled sextoy podcast is reality! Download it now to hear 3 girls dishing about toys while podcasting under the influence, random buzzing and Marie B. indulging in a little auto-bondage, among other naughty things.


The Toys we discuss in this podcast are:
The Futurotic Cuddly Companion
Pearl Butterfly
Eager Beaver
The Reach Out and Touch Me Vibe
Slimline clitoral stimulators
I Rub My Duckie Bondage Duckie
Don Juan Scepter (or a reasonable example of what Crista has)
Fukuoku
USB Powered Multi-Function Vibrator
Slim Jim Anal Probe
Impulse Bulbous Vibe
IRabbit
Rope ( do I really need to post a picture?)

We of course cover the care and cleaning of sex toys, however, in case we didn't cover everything, here are the specifics:

Non-Porous

  • Non-porous toys-silicone, glass, hard plastic and stone) have no pores and therefore when cleaned, are really clean. Use anti-bac soap or a bleach or alcohol solution (1:10 bleach/alcohol to water) or boil them or run them through the top shelf of your dishwasher

  • Be aware that some companies mislabel toys as silicone when they are really latex.

  • Silicone (medical grade) is opaque, never see through.

  • The surface will be without pores, and will have a silky-smooth surface. They can range from very firm to floppy, and they warm to body temperature and retain heat for a long time.

  • Silicone toys can be boiled for up to five minutes or put in the top rack of the dishwasher for complete sterilization, which is especially good for anal toys. Some silicone toys will react badly to silicone lubricants, so it's best to use water-based lubes with your silicone toys.


Porous
  • Most toys are made from a substance called jelly rubber or some name close to that. They are porous and are more likely to harbor bacteria

  • Jelly toys are usually clear, come in all sorts of fun colors (some are even sparkly!) or are made to look more like real skin (cyberskin)

  • A lot of these toys contain all sorts of weird mystery chemicals called phtalates and no one really has any idea what these chemicals might do to the body which is another reason why it’s a good idea to use condoms on these toys

  • I’ve also read that the cyberskin toys will melt into chemical goo if they come into contact with other jelly toys! This is due to a weird chemical reaction between the two materials.

  • And of course there’s the fact that many people are allergic to latex which can definitely put a damper on one’s play

  • Also, if you’ve been using a jelly toy and suddenly start having infections or irritation it’s either time to throw it away or start using a condom with it.

  • Make sure to always wash these toys with anti-bac soap and if it gets used for anal play then make it exclusively an anal toy

  • Your best bet is to treat these toys as disposable. If they start to look dull or you can see tears or breaks in the surface then throw them out.


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Thursday, April 20, 2006

The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex 5.75

Yes, dear listeners, it's another quickie show. I just want to be sure that you don't forget about me.

If my voice sounds a little odd today, it's because I had a freak asthma attack last night and I'm still dealing with the consequences.

Today I give a little preview of the upcoming sex toy show and I solicit info from my male listeners about their opinions on sextoys and buying toys for themselves.

I mention a couple of listener emails I received and answer the questions: " How do you feel about the lack of male frontal nudity? Do you feel cheated or is it true that women don't want to see penises? "

I also mention that I desperately need Podcast Alley Votes! VOTE FOR ME! PLEASE!!!!!

I mention the Podcasting group I recently found in my area as well as one of the podcasts done by local folks: Nowhere in Mulberry

I also mention my plan to start featuring a Geek Bachelor of the Month. If you'd like to participate, email me.

I also share two of my favorite sex related news stories:
Vaginal Grenade Smuggling and Downloadable, DVD burnable porn movies

And I once again beg for more feedback. Come on postmodern geeks, show this girl some love:

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Sunday, March 26, 2006

A Mini Podcast

Hello all! This is a mini cast I made to show off my new sound equipment. I mention the upcoming show that I have planned which will be all about every girl's best friend: Sex Toys!

I also mention some ideas for other shows such as:

  • Food and Sex
  • Dirty Talk
  • Mind Fucking
  • Porn
  • Joint podcast about sexy non-porn movies



What do you think? Do any of these sound interesting? Please let me know.



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Monday, March 13, 2006

The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex #5: A Political Rant

Hey folks! I'm baaaaaack! And I'm just a little pissed off. This episode of The PostModern Geek's Guide to Sex is a political rant, so if you're offended by women with strong opinions, you might want to skip this one.



Today I talk about the assault on women's reproductive rights and the assault on such basic healthcare services as family planning.



The places where I got my information are:


Abortion Fact Sheets


Major Supreme Court Rulings regarding Reproductive Health



Assault on Birth Control and Family Planning


Condom Effectiveness Facts





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Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Happy Valentine's Day!

Here's a quick audio Valentine from your PostModern SexGeek. Have fun tonight but above all...be safe!

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Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Monday, January 02, 2006

My Intro music today is "Bounce Your Boobies" by Rusty Warren. Please go check out her site. She's amazing and hilarious!


Music for today's podcast is Little Black Dress by Cush.



Today I did a mini-rant about 2257. The following are links for more info about this:


Electronic Frontier Foundation's Page


The Free Speech Coalition's page


Tribe's Pre-emptive strike


The shows that I promo'd were:




And instead of another song, I give you a special treat: "I Put a Spell on You", an erotic short written by me.



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    Sunday, December 11, 2005

    The Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex: Show #2

    • Marie talks about her trials and tribulations with recording today (house alarms, recalcitrant computers and stinky pets)

    • First song for the cast is My Girl by Baseless

    • I mention that so far so good, no other problems have befallen my recording session. Little did I know that there was going to be a mysterious popping/clicking noise on my recording but too bad. I am not recording this a 5th time!

    • It's winter in the Metroplex and that means dry skin the remedy for which is Buttercream Frosting Sinfully Rich Body Butter by Jaqua Girls *hint hint*

    • Forgive me for being an eejit and not better explaining about dental dams (Saran Wrap for Oral Sex!) and STD testing. I give explanations for all of the above as well as info on how to find testing and treatment i.e. Planned Parenthood or Googling your local health department.

    • I'm experiencing a coughing issue so please excuse me if my voice sounds froggy

    • I talk about my lovely discovery that I already know Ellie of
      Bedroom Radio, which is a terribly sexy podcast. I then play the promo for her show done by Professor P of Professor P's Porn Panorama

    • I also mention that I think Professor P sounds incredibly sexy on the promo. Woohoo!

    • A couple of my listeners suggested that I do a podcast about talking dirty and I agree that it's a good idea. I plan on doing that after the holidays.

    • Next song on the list Christmas Here on Mars by Bubble


    And that's a wrap folks! Don't forget to let me know what you think! Contact me in the following ways:

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    Friday, December 02, 2005

    Houston, we have a Frappr

    Hey Folks, I'd love to start seeing where in the world you're located so cruise on over to Frappr and let me know!

    Post-Modern Geek's Guide to Sex Frappr Map